1# Soul Mate

14 Signs of your Soulmate

The order is always like this so please bare with me

14) You argue and fight with them but you still can't get them out of your mind.

13) When you were with them late at night and they hang up. 

          You miss them already although it's just 5 minutes ago.

12) You read their texts over and over again

 11) You walk really slow when you are with them

10) You feel shy whenever you are with them

9) When you think about them, your heart beat faster and faster

8) You smile when you hear their voice

7) When you look at them , you can't see other people, .... all you see is him/her

6) You start listening to slow songs while thinking of them

5) They become all you think about 

4) You get highed just from their scent and closeness

3) You realise that you are always smiling to yourself when you are thinking about them

2) You would do anything for them.... (*optional... not really everything... as long as Allah SWT do not   forbid)

1) While reading this , there's one person in your mind this whole time.

*Wallahualam... it may be true and may be not.. so , consider it as your last resort . 

But!! 

Please remember that everything is optional and depending on perspective according to your religion. 

Important Notes: There are other criteria that needs to be consider before you take any action...

      in general there's four... 

He/She from a good family background, 

befriend with nice people,  

     beautiful soul and crystal clear character, 

and wise in taking care of his/her pride which mean his/her own dignity and his/her family.

 ( I may be too over generalizing with the character but you get what I mean)

May we all be granted a soul mate that will forever make us happy and lead us to jannah..
~Happy Marriage ~

 That's all for now.. Until next time.. wassalam

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Redemption

The exam week is just  around the corner.
Just want to wish all of you who will be sitting for the exam next week, a very joyous study week and all the best in your exam... May Allah SWT be with us.
 I have a lot to redeem this semester.. hope i'll do great... hope we all do great~..

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Muchas Felicidades Mi Amigas...

                                                                          LET'S REVISE!!

I heard Enough

Assalamualaikum....

Experience is the best teacher.. they always go back to that statement but do they really understand that?
If they do, then why does they always believe in what they heard rather then what they know and experienced... or are they actually trying to fool themselves in believing so that they'll fit in. Or perhaps , this is just a way of showing their point of view. They don't like it so they'll believe only the negative and forget the positive ones despite how true it is.

A gentle reminder for everyone... Never believe what you read, see or listen.. everything depends on your perspective.. maybe good, maybe bad... and if you think that you haven't heard enough of the story from both sides then by all means please don't just simply add up because those ignorant people, they won't bother, they will just listen and believe...that's what they do best and the result >>> ...............

~Ver Quando Te Veo~

The Broken Mirror

La Verdadera Amistad...

I love my friends... for whatever that may stand in between of our friendship,

 please know that I will always be there for you. 

Although there's time when  I did wrong, please know that you'd once had your share of wrongs too.

There'll be time when I can't be with you and I am sorry but please know that you are never with me when I needed you the most and I was always there with you before, at least I tried. 

The only difference is that I never complaint.

There'll be time when people are talking about you, rumors are lurking around, the bad talks are spreading like wildfire....please  know that I won't be in that group of people. If it happen that I am in that situation, be sure that I'll absolutely stand by you. I'll prove them wrong . Trust me, I will. If I can't help it, then I'll walk away. I will never add up to those story because I know that what they said is just rumors but if it came out of my mouth then it surely is true because I know you more than them. I hope you do the same for me. I am not asking too much, am I?

I heard what you've done for me all this while thanks for being my "so called friend".

I never expected this from you.

Yes maybe we are better separate ways but please know that I love you, my dear beloved friends. I will remember everything that you ever did for me , to me....don't worry, I will.

Now , I have learnt who is truly my friend.. someone who won't judge me without knowing me...someone who will defend me because she knew me better than you. Someone who would deny those bad stuff they talk about me because she knows it's not true.. If it were true, she will ask the reason from me. She know that there is always two sides of a story.I respect that kind of friend. I'll be that kind of friend with that kind of friend. May our friendship grew stronger directly proportional to time. May Allah SWT bless our journey to become the best among the best. aminn~

Not a Friend

 To an acquaintance...

(* Sorry I cannot call you my friend because you don't deserve to be one)

" I never said that I am nice, NEVER!

I never thought that u r bad either..

 I'm sorry if  you think that I am pretending to be nice all this time. 

Please clear things out with yourself.. I am who I am .. with you or anyone else. I never pretend to be nice . 

You may think that I am pretending, but believe me .. from someone who knows me best (me) ... I am NOT . "

That's just how people are

Assalamualaikum..

The whole world are full of masquerade. 

I am not saying that there aren't any angel-like people but within those , 

there's also this devilish kind of people. 

Actually, I always see it this way... 

" Everyone is kind and nice, no one is bad.. the only thing that makes a difference is their CHOICES in life" .

 For instance, their choices of action  when emotion seems to get the upper hand 

and to gain time to judge if what is about to be said or 

done in the heat of the moment is really the best thing to do. 

This type of people failed to connect their thoughts, feelings and action in a healthy way. 

They cannot foresee the outcome of their action and for somewhat reason their level of empathy is rarely very poor.. .... 

Empathy is the feeling where you can bring yourself to view and accept other persons point of view

 ( put yourself in their shoes) and learn their emotion through this. 

With that, you would know whether your anger and your "attitude" is appropriate.

 >>So much Attitude<<

There are another type of people who thinks very big of themselves and always see the bad in others.

They get angry over very little things and blindly channel their anger towards someone or something . This type of people lack the rationality and of course their "senses":.

In the end, this type of people often humiliated themselves due to their previous action. (It's really a bad idea to get angry over something that you are ignorant of. 

 Analogically, can you see how the bad people always lose and the good always win in a movie. That actually happen in real life. 

 She always says mean stuff to people without even realizing that somehow she was just highlighting the weakness within herself. For instance, rudeness, you see something is rude in your point of view but it's not .Why? because you used to do the same thing but not in the same context and way.. maybe your way are harsher or gentler , who knows...that's my POV... 

What??!.. ;-)